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If you’re craving a place that feels untouched by time, where nature and culture still thrive in their purest forms, Kannur is calling your name. Tucked away in northern Kerala, this hidden gem is all about raw, rustic beauty. Think peaceful beaches without the crowds, age-old traditions that still feel alive, and a warmth in the air that makes you feel right at home.

Kannur isn’t just another tourist spot—it’s a piece of Kerala that has held on to its soul. The beaches here are pristine, the landscapes are untouched, and life moves at a pace that reminds you to breathe. Whether it’s the charm of Theyyam performances, the history etched into its forts, or the simple joy of sharing a home-cooked meal at a cozy homestay, Kannur offers something rare: an escape into a world where simplicity and serenity reign.




A Peaceful Escape

Kannur’s beaches are known for their peaceful atmosphere. Unlike the bustling beaches of other tourist-heavy destinations, these serene shores offer plenty of space to unwind and connect with nature. The sunsets here are particularly magical, painting the sky in hues of orange and pink, making it an idyllic spot for introspection or romance.

Whether you’re seeking peace, adventure, or simply a moment to breathe, Kannur’s beaches deliver it all with an authentic charm that stays with you long after you leave..

The absence of commercial clutter means you can enjoy uninterrupted views of the Arabian Sea, hear the soothing sound of waves, and feel the fresh sea breeze in its purest form.

  • Payyambalam Beach: A long stretch of golden sand that’s perfect for a leisurely stroll or a quiet moment of reflection. The clean surroundings make it ideal for picnics and relaxation.

  • Meenkunnu Beach: This relatively lesser-known gem is unspoiled and tranquil, making it a favorite for those seeking solitude away from crowded tourist spots.

  • Baby Beach: Known for its cozy, peaceful vibe, this beach offers a unique sense of intimacy, perfect for families or solo travelers.

  • The Motor-Drivable Beach: Muzhappilangad Beach: One of Kannur’s most unique attractions is Muzhappilangad Beach, Asia’s longest drive-in beach. Spanning about 4 kilometers, this stunning beach allows you to drive your car or bike right along the shoreline, creating an unforgettable experience. From the thrill of driving along the sands to the simple joy of watching the waves, every moment here is a celebration of life’s quieter pleasures.





Culture on a Plate: Where Tradition Meets Flavor


Kannur is a treasure trove of rich traditions and flavors, where culture and food go hand in hand. Every experience here, from watching a Theyyam performance to savoring a traditional meal, is steeped in authenticity and passion.

Theyyam Performances: A Living Tradition

One of Kannur’s most captivating cultural offerings is Theyyam, an ancient ritualistic dance that blends art, mythology, and spirituality. Watching a Theyyam performance is like stepping into a world where divine energy comes alive through intricate costumes, hypnotic rhythms, and powerful storytelling. It’s a truly transformative experience that connects you to the heart of Kerala’s culture.

Handloom Weaving: Threads of Heritage

Kannur is equally famous for its handloom weaving, a craft that reflects the dedication and skill of local artisans. The vibrant fabrics, known for their intricate designs and superior quality, are a testament to the region’s artistic heritage. A visit to a weaving centre offers a glimpse into this centuries-old tradition, where each thread tells a story of patience and artistry.

Savor the Local Cuisine: A Feast for the Senses

No cultural experience is complete without indulging in Kannur’s food, which is as vibrant and diverse as its traditions. Meals here are a celebration of Kerala’s finest flavors:

  • Seafood Galore: Freshly caught fish, prawns, and crabs cooked with aromatic spices and coconut-based gravies that transport you straight to coastal heaven.

  • Vegetarian Delights: From avial (a mixed vegetable curry) to olan (a coconut milk-based dish), the vegetarian options are equally mouthwatering.

  • Staple Favorites: Enjoy puttu (steamed rice cakes) paired with spicy kadala curry or fluffy appams with rich, flavorful stews.

  • Sweet Endings: Treat yourself to desserts like payasam, unniyappam, and halwa, which offer the perfect finish to any meal.

 

Homely Airbnbs in Kannur: A Cultural Retreat

One of the unique aspects of Kannur that sets it apart from other destinations is the availability of homely stays that offer more than just a place to stay. These accommodations often double as cultural havens, where guests are welcomed with the renowned warmth of Kerala hospitality. Staying in these intimate, family-run accommodations goes beyond a simple vacation—it’s an opportunity to connect with Kerala’s soul. You’re not just a visitor; you become part of a home, savouring its traditions, tasting its cuisine, and embracing its culture.

 


Door to Beach, from our Homestay!


Serving: Home-Grown and Home-Made Delights

Kannur is not a resorting place, its rustic virginity for tourists has been catered by homestays run by local families who take pride in showcasing their culture through food. Imagine waking up to the aroma of freshly brewed filter coffee and a traditional Kerala breakfast featuring. The ingredients used in these meals are often sourced straight from the hosts' backyard gardens or local farms, ensuring an authentic farm-to-table experience.

For lunch and dinner, you’ll be treated to a feast of Kerala’s culinary treasures:

  • Freshly caught seafood, marinated with traditional spices and cooked to perfection.
  • Seasonal vegetables cooked in coconut oil, bringing out the flavors unique to the region.
  • Sweet indulgences to round off your meal.



Way to farm, to pick favorite fresh!


Many hosts are eager to share their recipes, making it an interactive experience for those curious about Kerala’s food culture.

A Slice of Kerala Life

Staying in a homely Airbnb in Kannur also offers an opportunity to immerse yourself in the local way of life. Here’s what you can look forward to:

  • Cultural Décor: From wooden furniture and traditional Kerala lamps (nilavilakku) to colorful murals and coir mats, these homes exude charm and authenticity.

  • Warm Interactions: The hosts often go the extra mile to make guests feel like family, sharing stories, guiding you to hidden gems, and sometimes even inviting you to join their family rituals.

  • Cooking Classes: Many homestays offer cooking lessons, where you can learn to make authentic Kerala dishes under the guidance of your host.




Embracing Kerala’s Warmth

The hospitality in these Airbnbs extends beyond food and lodging. The hosts often help guests experience Kannur's culture in deeper ways:

  • They might arrange for a private Theyyam performance, allowing you to witness this art form up close.
  • Some organize guided tours of local attractions, like the weaving villages or spice plantations, ensuring you don’t miss any hidden gems.
  • Others introduce you to traditional practices like toddy tapping or teach you how to wear a saree or mundu, adding a personal touch to your Kerala adventure.
  • A few of homestays also run Kalari classes.

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For a truly serene and enriching experience, choose one of Kannur’s homely stays, where every meal, interaction, and moment is steeped in the magic of Kerala’s traditions. It’s more than a stay—it’s a journey into the heart of "God’s Own Country."



Rustic Keralite Homestay!


Why Kannur Stands Out

Kannur is different—it’s not crowded, flashy, or overly commercialized like some other places in Kerala. It’s still got that untouched, old-world charm that feels like a breath of fresh air. Here, you can really switch off from the chaos of daily life and take a moment to just be. Whether you’re lying on a quiet beach with nothing but the sound of waves, soaking in the vibrant local traditions, or exploring its historic forts, Kannur has this magical way of making you feel at peace.

If you’ve been craving a break that’s all about calm vibes and soulful experiences, Kannur is the place to go. Pack your bags and discover this hidden gem on Kerala’s northern coastline—where serene beaches, warm people, and a rich culture will give you memories you’ll hold onto forever.

 

 

India is a land of celebrations, and if there’s one state that elevates the festive spirit to an entirely different level, it’s Gujarat. Known as the Land of Gods and Divinity, Gujarat beautifully blends tradition, culture, and spirituality. Being from Agra, I’ve always been surrounded by an overwhelming richness in culture and architecture that feels like it’s woven into my very soul. Growing up near Rajasthan, the seamless blending of traditions, rituals, and histories has only deepened this connection. My love for forts, heritage, cultural values, vibrant attires, intricate jewellery, and flavourful food isn’t just an interest—it’s a part of who I am, pulsing through my veins. For as long as I can remember, it had been a dream of mine to experience the magic of Garba during Navratri—the colors, the music, the energy. And finally, this year, that dream turned into reality.

What started as casual chit-chat with friends about the iconic United Way of Baroda Garba soon turned into a full-fledged plan. Trains were booked, passes were secured, and before we knew it, a group of 16 of us was all set for an unforgettable nine-day journey through Gujarat.

From the pulsating beats of Garba in Vadodara, the shopping adventures at bustling bazaars, and indulging in mouthwatering Gujarati delicacies, to the serene and spiritual vibes of Somnath and Dwarka, this trip turned out to be everything I had envisioned—and so much more. Join me as I take you through the highlights of this exhilarating journey filled with dance, devotion, and discovery.



 

Welcome to Vadodara: The Heart of Garba

Our journey kicked off with great excitement as Vadodara, the Garba hub of Gujarat, welcomed us with open arms. Day 1 was all about exploring the vibrant local markets and shopping for the perfect Navratri attire. In Gujarat, how can you miss the traditional Chaniya Choli and Kediyo? We headed to Nawa Bazaar, the oldest and best place for bargaining. The market offered a stunning range of authentic Chaniya Cholis, starting from ₹800 to ₹30,000, and an incredible selection of oxidized jewelry priced between ₹20 and ₹300. And let’s not forget the colorful Odhani scarves!

While shopping, we indulged in some mouth-watering Gujarati snacks. Jalebi-Fafda is a must-try combo, and when in Gujarat, you have to embrace the “meeth-namkeen” flavors. We devoured local favorites like gathiya, patra, muthiya, sev, and the iconic Gujarati kadhi, which is surprisingly sweet compared to its Rajasthani counterpart. But the highlight of my culinary experience was the Lehsuniya Rotla (garlic-flavored bajra roti), a giant-sized delight!

Day 1: Garba Night, A Dream Come True

As night fell on Day 1, the moment we had all been waiting for finally arrived. Stepping into the gigantic Garba ground of UnitedWay of Baroda, we were awestruck. The dazzling colors of Chaniya Cholis, the festive decor, and the energy of the crowd were simply electrifying. Garba enthusiasts of all ages, from young children to elders in their 70s, were tapping their feet to the devotional beats dedicated to Goddess Durga.



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The synchrony in the dance, with thousands of people moving in perfect harmony in large circles, was a sight to behold. The soulful renditions of Kanha and Radha songs added to the divine atmosphere. Barefoot and immersed in the moment, we danced for hours under the hot and humid sky, lost in the love for Garba and devotion to the Goddess.


Day 2: Exploring the Statue of Unity

After barely three hours of sleep, we woke up fresh and buzzing with excitement. Day 2 was all about sightseeing, and we planned a trip to the magnificent Statue of Unity. Located just a couple of hours from Vadodara, this towering tribute to Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel is a symbol of national pride. The complex has so much to offer, from wildlife exhibits to a fascinating museum and the spectacular light and sound show, which left us teary-eyed with patriotism.

The day ended on a high note, with Prime Minister Narendra Modi's speech and the national anthem resonating in our hearts as we headed back with cherished memories.




Day 3: Garba Glamour on Ashtami

On Day 3, after a day of shopping at Alkapuri Market in Vadodara, known for its stunning Ajrakh prints and traditional handicrafts, the anticipation for the night ahead was palpable. As night approached, the excitement of returning to the Garba ground took over once again. This time, the occasion was even more special—it was Ashtami, a night known for its grandeur, and the energy was on a whole new level.

The Garba grounds were packed with people who had dressed to impress. The Chaniya Cholis were more vibrant, the Kediyos even more intricately embroidered, and the makeup and jewelry reflected the festive spirit. The women, especially, had put in extra effort, adorning themselves in backless blouses, mirror-work skirts, and colorful bangles. It was like watching a moving canvas of traditional Gujarati fashion. The men, not to be left behind, sported Kutchi jackets and vibrant kurtas, adding to the colorful spectacle.

As the night progressed, the music grew louder, and the crowd's enthusiasm reached a fever pitch. Melodies like “Radha nu Roop” and other traditional Garba tunes echoed through the air. Dancing in sync with the crowd, the atmosphere felt electric, as if the collective energy of thousands was being channeled into the rhythmic footwork of Garba.

What truly stood out that night was the confidence and freedom of the women. Well past midnight, girls and women of all ages could be seen confidently riding their scooters, their Garba outfits fluttering in the breeze, as they laughed and giggled with friends. It was a beautiful sight—a testament to how Gujarat strikes a perfect balance between tradition and modernity. The spirit of Navratri wasn't just confined to the dance floor; it overflowed into the streets, creating an atmosphere of celebration, empowerment, and togetherness.

Despite hours of dancing, no one seemed to tire. The energy in the Garba ground remained undiminished, with everyone wishing the night would never end. The magic of Ashtami made this Garba night one to remember forever.


 

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Day 4: A Spiritual Journey to Somnath and Dwarka

Day 4 started on a different note, as we shifted from the electrifying energy of Garba to the tranquil world of spirituality. Our group of 16 set off early in the morning, embarking on a journey to visit the revered Somnath and Dwarka temples. As we boarded our traveller, everyone was glued to their phones, reliving the excitement of the previous two days by flipping through Garba pictures, videos, and shopping snaps. For a moment, it felt like the trip was winding down. But that mood didn't last long—as soon as we started joking around, indulging in delicious snacks, and gulping down refreshing buttermilk, the energy was back in full swing.

In just 8 hours, we arrived at Somnath, just 20 minutes before the Aarti was about to begin. We rushed to our rooms, which were thankfully just 500 meters away from the temple. With barely any time to freshen up, we dashed to the Somnath Temple, and all the hustle was worth it.

The temple stood tall, bathed in golden hues, resembling a royal palace. Words can’t do justice to its beauty—it was spotless, well-organized, and surrounded by an aura of peace. Somnath Temple, one of the twelve Jyotirlingas, left us in awe. The darshan process was smooth; you didn’t have to walk much, and there were water jars available outside for purchase to offer Jal Abhishek to the Shivling.

That day, being Navami, the Shivling was adorned in an elaborate Ardhanarishwara sringar (half-Shiva, half-Parvati). It was a soul-soothing moment, one of those experiences where you feel an instant connection with divinity. The temple’s serenity made the experience even more special, offering us a quiet respite from the excitement of the days before. It was a perfect way to reset, filling our hearts with peace before continuing our spiritual journey to Dwarka the next day.

 


Day 5: A Visit to Dwarkadhish Temple

Day 5 started bright and early as we made our way to meet Dwarkadhish Ji, Lord Krishna, at the sacred Dwarka temple. Located near the confluence of the Gomti River with the Arabian Sea, Dwarka’s majestic structure resembled an ancient palace. The temple’s intricate carvings and grandeur made it an awe-inspiring sight, though it had a different vibe compared to Somnath.

Unlike the peaceful ambiance of Somnath, Dwarka was bustling with people, cows roaming around, and a more chaotic atmosphere. The temple wasn’t as clean or well-organized as Somnath, but its historic significance made up for it. One important tip: avoid carrying phones into the temple. You’ll have to deposit them before entering, and the long queues to collect them later can be time-consuming. Despite these small inconveniences, the darshan of Dwarkadhish Ji was a spiritually fulfilling experience.

The charm of Dwarka lies in its rustic beauty, where tradition and history come alive in every corner. It felt like stepping back in time, where Lord Krishna himself once ruled.


The Final Chapter

After a week action-packed days, we returned to Vadodara, feeling fulfilled yet nostalgic. The warmth of Gujarat, its rich traditions, and the unmatched vibrancy of Garba had captured our hearts. As we made our way back home, we couldn’t help but reminisce about the unforgettable memories we created.

From the dazzling Garba nights to the spiritual serenity of Somnath and Dwarka, Gujarat has left an indelible mark on my soul. Navratri in Gujarat is an experience of a lifetime, one that I will cherish forever. Whether it’s the dance, the food, the shopping, or the divine aura of its temples, Gujarat truly lives up to its title as the state of Gods and divinity.

If you haven’t experienced Garba in Gujarat yet, add it to your travel bucket list—it’s a journey you won’t regret!

 









Where in #GOA?

Which "Pub" has best #nightlife? 
What to do with your Friday, Saturday and Sunday night when in GOA?




Don't worry you are sorted! 
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Let's begin your itinerary to Goa...

I know Goa is too much to consume even if it is one of the smallest states, Goa is one that you can never have enough of. 

I'll try to make it easier for you to plan your weekend getaway or for that matter holidays too, in this blog post. Goa is a place where anything can be found. The fact that people of all ages are welcome here is what I like most about it. I've been coming here since I was 11 years old and have done so on birthdays, anniversaries, weekend getaways with friends, and now with my child. I always feel refreshed when I visit. Specifically, Goa is split into two sections, south and north. This blog is worth reading if you're looking for weekend activities in North Goa.

Things to do in North Goa

Goa has whatever you might think you'd like. There is therefore something available for you, depending on the reason you came to Goa.

North of Goa is fun! A happier, and more vibrant young Goa.

Consider the following inquiries as you examine your "Goa Trip": Do you want the option to place a food and beverage order? Are you more of a water fun person or do you prefer a calm sea? Would you prefer sun tan or sun set? Would you prefer music on the beach or peace and quiet? Do you want to make some memories while dancing, vibing on the beach or you want to sip n gaze at sea? A sport person or romantic one?

 

How to Reach Goa


By Air: Goa is well connected from any of the metro cities in India. You can book a direct flight from the link given here Easemytrip for the best and most affordable experience.
 
By Train: North Goa's closest railroad station is Thivim.
If your train doesn't stop there, Madgaon is your last option. Get off the train and book a cab; Ola and Uber aren't yet available in Goa. A local cab will cost between INR 1000 to INR 1500.
 
By Road: Due to the connectivity of the roads and the ease of navigation, if you are planning a road trip, be sure to enter through Panjim. It is a big time savior believe me, I am claiming this out of my own experiences from various roads.

 

Where to Stay in North Goa

Staying again is a matter of choice and the kind of traveler you are. 
Sharing the list here choose as per your trip kind.


1. Leela Cottages

A few steps up from the beach are some very adorable cottages with their own private sun beds set back from the beach.


2. Wigwam

This place is on the Mandrem side but also heading towards Arambol, and is inland, not on the beach. These incredible tipis are located in a lush garden and have the most beautiful outdoor restrooms.
Choose Wigwam if you want a distinctive and different place to stay. You can ride the bicycles to the beach for a brief distance.



3. Jardin D’Ulysses


The rooms are really lovely, the atmosphere is peaceful, and it will feel like checking into  home. This is a lovely place to stay, a little away from the actual Morjim Beach.
They also have a fantastic restaurant.


 4. Resort Oxygen

Despite not being on a beach, there is an infinity pool where you can watch the sun set. The cottages are charming, quiet, and cozy.

 5. Buena Vida Beach Resort


This property's location is breathtaking. It's right on the beach, they have limited villas with each villa having a patio facing the vast line of beach.


 6. Pause by the Sea

New and nicely decorated Bali-inspired cottages with lovely gardens and a pool. The resort serves the best food in town. Morjim Beach is 200 m from Pause By The Sea, while Ashwem Beach is 1.9 km from the property.


7. Landmark Goa Villas

These are elegant villas that would be suitable for a group outing or if you and your friends were looking for a place to hang out and have fun.



8. Sibaya Beach Resort

Within budget, right next to beach, and very very clean n green resort. I like the sunsets from this place.


9. Circle

This is a new entry guys, awesomely unique, and a sustainable travel property. I didn’t get chance to book it so can’t review the services, however I am already in its fan club conceptually.

Red Thread Vegator, Synq Morjim, Living Room Beach Resorts, Montego, Woke Hostel, Artist Cottages are well maintained, decent and budget properties to opt for a longer stay.

 

Nightlife in Goa

When I say party I am mentioning here “The Beach Party”.
Without wasting you time, listing is as follows:

HillTop

Situated between Vagator and Anjuna Beaches in Goa, The HillTop stands as a legendary trance party venue since 1974. It preserves the 60s Hippie atmosphere. Nestled on a small hill, it offers a chance to unwind amidst dance, delectable food, vibrant cocktails, and great music. While Sundays witness the club's vibrant energy, the operating hours are limited from 5 PM to 10 PM. Evolving from a roadside eatery to Goa's premier psychedelic trance destination, HillTop boasts neon-lit palm trees, creating an enchanting ambiance for partygoers and diners alike. Renowned for hosting the HillTop Festival in February, the club attracts top national and international artists.

9Bar Goa

DJs come from all over the world to play here. Due to its proximity to numerous hostels and guesthouses, tourists frequently stop by for parties. Amazing views of the Arabian Sea are a benefit of this location. Every time I've gone, admission has been free, but depending on the DJ, some big parties may charge a small fee to enter.

The Goa Collective Bazaar

Markets are a huge part of our incredible Indian culture and also for me, a large part of the excitement of traveling. It doesn’t matter if you actually need to buy anything, I believe you should always jump at the chance to visit a market. During the busy season, which runs from the end of November to the end of April, the market is open every Friday from 4 p.m. to 1 a.m. It can be found in North Goa in Vagator at the famous Goan Trance venue of Hilltop. Entry costs 100 rupees per person, and if necessary, a stamp is provided to permit re-entry. You can find some amazing boutique stuff also, if you are bringing children, I would advise arriving early to partake in the art activities that are typically offered in the kids area near the entrance.

Dubki

Dubki, the dawn and dusk cafe on Ozran Beach, looks dazzling in every inch and has the most coveted sea views anyone can ever ask for, peppy vibe, great ambience and a perfect instagrammable happy place. DJ here is a bolly pro, ample of space to lagao thumkas of your kind. I love it, totally!

Sea Turtle

Sea Turtle at bagha beach, total jam packed nightlife vibes with sand under you feet and sea breeze in your hair.

Restaurants of North Goa

When in Goa you must hop between flavors.

Pisco by the beach

This restaurant at Anjuna is light and airy and has spectacular view of the  Ocean. It is constructed to resemble a resort villa. Pisco's food is more than just a meal.

Baba Au Rhum

A tiny eatery serving delicious pizzas and other food at Anjuna is known as Baba Au Rhum. I'd heartily endorse going here for breakfast.

La Plage

No matter what type of cuisine you're craving, Morjim has it. You can get the best food there. You should really space out your visit here so you can eat at each of these places, in my opinion. La Plage offers something for everyone with its secluded beach, authentic French cuisine, and breathtaking sunsets. Don't miss out on the chance to eat, drink, and celebrate in Goa!

Khana and love café

The road up to Morjim Beach has the cutest, coziest little cafe. Along with great coffee and smoothies, they also have a small boutique with hip clothes. They have a lovely terrace where you can eat lunch, dinner, or breakfast. Although not the fastest, the food was excellent!


Activities In North Goa

North Goa has a lot of water activities available, including jet skiing, banana boat rides, parasailing, and more, just like the majority of North Goa beaches. My advice is to haggle with the sellers. If engaging in adventurous activities is not your cup of tea, you can also choose to simply relax on the beach, go swimming, or get a massage. You can go out and shake your booty at any number of nearby parties.

 

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A Goa trip can’t be listed in one single blog. Imagine lying on your sun bed for the whole day with a coconut in hand or grooving with your kind of poison, its totally your kind of vacation. 

Relax or walk around, party hop or sit and chit chat, personally what I felt is – GOA is a feeling and mood, be you, have your own kind of fun 😊

 

Happy Friendship Day 2022 

Gunjan Bharadwaj | 07th August 2022


Hello, hey there, what's up, hey bruh, daah....................to..
Hey how have you been, it's been a while, long time no see.............to...tu zinda hai k parlok nikal liya?
A kind love, an unconditional support system, friendship is never out of the league.
Silliest mistakes, careless talks, squeezing money for a friend in need in a judgement free zone, be it late night food hunting or early morning chai ki tapri, at some random hill, I have it all in my list which we have done together. Being with such personalities who may be a reason of your multiple conspiracies ..is a lifetime memory and part of my own story. 



With aging and other commitments you may not be talking everyday, you still feel their pain, you still know whenever you need them they will reach out to you, in worst of your time they are standing tall. Having such life partners is a tempting treat.
 
The toughest part of this relationship is to keep it alive, people come n go in life but being with ones who were supposed to be your kins in their thick n thins is never easy.

My idea or you can call it a yet not achieved goal of friendship is inspired from 19th century, my grandfather, my dad, they have a certain level in their friendship. Their friends were no less than families. 60's reunion in a school uniform, tea parties of endless chats about kisne kis ko kitne dhoke diye, preparing a meal with very personalized touch for your friend when you are 70 already..... admiring this pure non malign love since my childhood.
 

Is there an official Friendship Day?


I should confess on this Friendships day that I haven't been this committed, a feeling of deep-seated resentment still exist. Expectation of him/her calling me as I am grieving, expecting him/her to be available as n when I need them, expecting them to be back on their own. To be in this state is no luxury m sure. As we are a part of social media exposed generation wherein people are highly expressive and with sudden NON-EXPECTED cold instances when you are already fancying for a bollywood movie inspired friendship goals, it HURTS! The poor friend on the other side of the world, unknowingly hurt you on the grounds of your non attained desirable attention.
Yes, friends are supposed to be your support system but you need to call out for help, express your wishes and give them their predefined space which they own. 

Happy Friendship!


To keep in touch is in the simplest form of all time now, a phone call - once in a while is enough to let them know you still care for them. Even if you are not swearing on your friendship, not going to holidays together, not partying the whole night,  and yet manages to hold tight, Salute to you.

I have friends who can sense my voice, can make me smile, can hear me crying in a non-judgemental zone, what else I can EXPECT!!. 

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Friendship's day is offcourse just another day which is named for some reason, but this blog is definitely my way of expressing love n affection for you all lovelies who stayed this long.  It is not necessary to celebrate friendship day with great pomp and show every time. Friends like you are  precious indeed. Let's continue to share a true bond that we always do!

Celebrating life for all the reasons!!


Cherishing memories!! 

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